I was 23 when I had my first child. I started swelling up early in my third
trimester. When I started gaining 8 pounds in two weeks and had to stop
wearing shoes because my feet were so swollen, I talked to my doctor, who
told me to cut back on my work schedule.
Christmas at a large retail store
is not the time to tell your manager that you can't work as much. Luckily,
they were understanding. Of course, I was showing up to work in my slippers
because my shoes didn't fit.
The morning of December 15, 1995 I was 37
1/2 weeks. I woke up, throwing up, something I hadn't done since the 18th
week. I had severe chest pains and a headache. I called my doctor's
office. The nurse said that it was probably the flu, but I should come in
anyway. I called my mother, who took me to the doctor's office. When I got
there, I had gained 4 lbs in one week, and my blood pressure was 165/100.
Normal for me is 100/60. I had +2 protein in my urine and I was
hypertensive. The doctor said that I was to go across the street to the
hospital to be induced immediately.We called my husband from the room.
I was given magnesium sulfate and Demerol immediately.
Everything that happened next, I have been told by
family members. I have vague memories, mostly of throwing up, but I have
been told that my blood pressure was going up with the contractions, even
through the Demerol, so they gave me an epidural. I do remember pushing. I
also remember being in the middle of a push and falling back on the bed
screaming in pain, even with all the pain medication. The doctor
immediately ordered a C-section and I was wheeled in to the OR. Dakota was
born at 4:45 in the morning. Perfectly healthy. My blood pressure went
back to normal and the 50 pounds I had gained was gone in two days. Four
days later, I took my beautiful son home.
Then, two and a half years later, I get pregnant again. Nothing I could get
my hands on said that there was any increased risk of developing
preeclampsia again. My doctor, a different one this time, never mentioned
it.
My second pregnancy was rougher. I threw up until I was 18 weeks and
didn't gain any weight until 22 weeks. But once I started gaining weight,
it came on.
At 28 weeks I was in an auto accident and spent a few hours in
L&D under observation. Not a hint of a problem.
Then at 35 weeks, trouble
set in. I started getting Braxton-Hicks contractions. They didn't hurt,
but they were often and getting closer. I called my doctor's office. They
told me to take Benedryl, since it's a muscle relaxer, and if that didn't
help in a hour, go to L&D. Well, while I was in L&D, my blood pressure was
up and the BH were dilating my cervix. Still no pain. They got the BH to
stop, and my BP down. There was no protein in my urine, so they sent me
home with instructions to see my doctor in the next day or two. When I went
into my doctor's office, my blood pressure was up again and this time there
was protein in my urine.
After a quick sonogram to check the position of
the baby, she sent me across the street to the hospital, no detours. My
only question was if I was going to remember this labor, she said yes.
At 4:30, they started the pitocin. The contractions weren't that bad until
they broke my water. Then they were hell. I was asked if I wanted an
epidural and before they finished asking, I said yes.
My beautiful daughter
was born at 10:30. I got to hold her as soon as she was born, but when they
started cleaning her up, they noticed that she was a little lethargic from
the magnesium, so they sent her to the special care nursery. I didn't get
to see her again for 12 hours, but as soon as she was hungry, they came and
got me. 4 days after she was born, we went home.
My children are now 5 and 2 and they are going to have a new baby brother or
sister in November 2001. My doctor has already said that I will probably
develop preeclampsia again and she will be keeping a close eye on me. She's
concerned that it is showing up earlier in each pregnancy.
I am just
thankful that both of my children are healthy and showing no ill effects of
my problem.
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