Dumped because of Pre-e

Are you considering having another child after preeclampsia? Trying again after preeclampsia can be an emotional challenge. You can find support with others who share your concerns here.
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Re : Dumped because of Pre-e

Postby clayjmw » Mon May 03, 638613 2:07 am

You know I had a horrible Dr. with my Jasmine (military dr. eww) But I got pregnant with my son clay in another state and had a civilan dr. He was awesome. I did get PE with both pregnencies but he told me that he wanted me to at least wait 5 years before trying again after I asked him if I should try again. I can not believe that Dr. said that to you it makes me angry.

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Re : Dumped because of Pre-e

Postby lukesmom06 » Tue Jul 19, 638603 8:56 am

Thank you for the support!! We have found a new OB in the next town over, the nice thing is she is very good with any high risk pregnancy. We are happy to have found a new OB only 20 minutes away.

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Re : Dumped because of Pre-e

Postby annoited » Mon Jun 13, 638603 7:21 pm

He is NUTS!!! Count your blessings~ You def dont need him to be your OB... I'm pissed off as it is and i wasnt the one dumped. I'm sorry he's such a nuisance... Too bad it's his loss!!

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Re : Dumped because of Pre-e

Postby onesock » Mon Jun 13, 638603 2:33 pm

Doesn't sound worthy of being your doctor anyway! :)

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Re : Dumped because of Pre-e

Postby amanda » Mon Jun 13, 638603 11:39 am

His bedside manner stinks but think of it this way - at least you don't have to deal with his obvious lack of understanding!

The very best finding another!

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Re : Dumped because of Pre-e

Postby sophiesmom » Mon Jun 13, 638603 9:35 am

That is horrible. The doctor should tell you the facts, (like you don't know!) and refer to a specialist.
I am sorry that your doctor did that to you. Deciding whether to try again is such a big deal. I would be running from that Dr. too.

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Re : Dumped because of Pre-e

Postby amandamm » Mon Jun 13, 638603 1:03 am

Wow! That is horrible! It is horrible at any time to say, but I would understand a *tiny* bit if you had it at like 18 weeks or something, but even then... lots of people have it once! That is just bad, I guess it is good that he won't see you, who would want to deal with that kind of idiocy!

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Re : Dumped because of Pre-e

Postby jgrumet » Thu Jun 02, 638603 5:38 pm

Oh yeah that makes perfect sense...to force you to make a deeply personal and emotional decision on a whim so he can grace you with his presence to perform your pap smear!? You have got to be kidding me.....

some doctors are idiots

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Re : Dumped because of Pre-e

Postby sheri-ct » Thu Jun 02, 638603 5:48 am

That's crazy! The doctor sounds like a quack! You are better off with a new OB, imagine what he would say if you did show up pregnant. Good luck!

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Re : Dumped because of Pre-e

Postby jenanderson » Tue May 31, 638603 8:26 pm

Wow, that is awful. I hope you told him off and ran away as fast as you possibly could! I'm sure there is a competent OB out there who will love to have you as a patient, and possibly even help you get through another pregnancy. If nothing else, help you make a good decision for your health.


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