Showering when you're by yourself with babies

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Re : Showering when you're by yourself with babies

Postby momma1408 » Sat Mar 21, 2009 06:46 pm

When I first brought my son home from the NICU i would wait until someone else was there with me to shower I was always afraid of me being in the shower and his apnea monitor going off or something. I also have done the bouncy seat thing when he actually liked it lol. Now he's 15 months old so I just take a shower while he is napping or while he is eating a bottle in his pack and play. My DH thought I was crazy too but they just don't get us Moms lol. I like all the other creative ideas you have all given. I will definitely remember them as Scott gets older and when we are out places. Good luck Dara with the showers I know its hard to leave them alone for just a sec even.

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Re : Showering when you're by yourself with babies

Postby carjashaner » Sat Mar 21, 2009 02:13 pm

I applaud your creativity too andrea! I have always left the baby in her crib when showering, though I think about her the whole time and rush to get done. I think we as moms all worry about stuff like that, especially when they are very young. I realized though that it's when they get older that you need to worry more, since they are so mobile. Hannah is still too small to climb out of a crib, so for now I still feel safe, and my bathroom is right beside her bedroom, so I too leave the door open. ;)

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Re : Showering when you're by yourself with babies

Postby darateacher » Sat Mar 21, 2009 12:41 am

Oh, that's great! Isn't it nice that others helped ya too? :-) We've already been offered help in carrying our kiddos in for a check up. the man said, "You've really got your hands full." My response was, "Always!" and the man laughed in an understanding way. Dan didn't want the help. Darn it!

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Re : Showering when you're by yourself with babies

Postby dohertyab » Mon Mar 16, 2009 04:18 pm

It's always fun with twins - one in a bouncy chair and the other in a swing worked for me for showering, sometimes would put the pack and play next to the bathroom and leave the door open with them lying down in it. I used the exersaucer when they got older. I must say that SOMETIMES I would take a shower when they were wailing - the shower water could drown out most of the noise. Maybe I was a risk taker, but I needed a break too from the chaos. They were always fine when I got out. Funniest story - nursing number 3 while peeing and making the twins (aged 4) stand outside the stall with the luggage and stroller singing so I knew they were still there, all while at an airport by myself. Came out to find 2 ladies clapping at my creativity and they they helped me for the rest of the trip. Aren't we all wonderful?

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Re : Showering when you're by yourself with babies

Postby jenanderson » Mon Mar 16, 2009 02:37 am

How's the shower situation? I hope your finding a way that will work for you! Glad your home with your boys and getting the time to figure out all the fun details!

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Re : Showering when you're by yourself with babies

Postby jacobkaden » Sun Mar 15, 2009 01:48 pm

We wait for Jacob to nap and then put him on the monitor. It hasn't ever been a problem. Good luck!

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Re : Showering when you're by yourself with babies

Postby mnmom » Sun Mar 15, 2009 10:02 am

Dara- Car seats work great also. And, when mine were really little I put them out in the hallway, outside the bathroom door and showered with the door open. I am a "very" hot shower person and the bathroom is a sauna when I am done! The car seat was nice because I could strap them in and knew there was no way they could wiggle out. But, I do have to admit, once they were 6 weeks or so, I left them in their crib when I showered. Once they were fed, changed and sleeping. And as far as "what if they cry?"- as long as they are in a safe place-crib, strapped in a seat.....so be it. I promise you, my girls cried for me more than once during infancy, and really, they haven't needed any extensive therepy as adults:) You are going to have so many fun adventures with your two little men!!

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Re : Showering when you're by yourself with babies

Postby darateacher » Sat Mar 14, 2009 09:08 pm

So, we can hear them over the water running? That's good to know. Thanks! :-) I only bought one bouncy seat. Better get another one. Silly me! I thought they could share! :-)

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Re : Showering when you're by yourself with babies

Postby sheri-ct » Sat Mar 14, 2009 07:10 pm

I used to put them in their bouncy seats and bring them in the bathroom with me. Then I could hear and see them.

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Re : Showering when you're by yourself with babies

Postby caryn » Sat Mar 14, 2009 06:26 pm

Mine was loud enough that it wasn't a problem to hear him, and I lived in Phoenix, so humidity wasn't a problem either. I don't imagine it would really be a problem for any baby, though, because humidity rates vary worldwide but there are babies in both the Sonoran desert and in Seattle.


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