one year

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Re : one year

Postby wrennie » Tue May 04, 2010 10:47 pm

Jamie, its so hard. Hugs to you. I am sure Vincent is watching over you and he knows you miss him. Hang in there.

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Re : one year

Postby joker » Tue May 04, 2010 12:36 am

Thinking of you Jamie.

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Re : one year

Postby jules2 » Sat May 01, 2010 05:43 am

I'm sorry I missed this too. I am coming up to one year now as well. Best wishes xx

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Re : one year

Postby ladybug76135 » Fri Apr 30, 2010 08:55 am

I hope you were able to spend your day remembering your first son while loving on your 2nd one. I'm sure Vincent was smiling down on all 3 of you today.

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Re : one year

Postby annes » Fri Apr 30, 2010 08:02 am

I am sorry I missed this yesterday, I was away from my computer all day. HUGS. The anniversaries are so hard, everything that has calmed down gets stirred up again. I hope the day was peaceful.

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Re : one year

Postby rosemary » Thu Apr 29, 2010 06:03 pm

Jamie & are both in my thoughts and prayers today. I wish you both peace and healing on this very difficult day. (((HUGS)))

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Re : one year

Postby sam10 » Thu Apr 29, 2010 03:56 pm

Hi Jamie,

It is so unpredictable of how we feel. If we expect the worst, we often find ourselves dealing with it much better than expected. And sometimes we brace ourselves for a day or moment, and think we are ok, but then realize that it is much harder.

When it hits me hard, I don't try to escape the feelings, but always try to accept them and allow them to happen.

Creating something special on a day like this, is a wonderful idea to remember little Vincent.

I am thinking of your babies today.

Take care.

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Re : one year

Postby me793462 » Thu Apr 29, 2010 01:36 pm

Jamie, I could have written your exact post. Today is one year since I lost Rylan. I am feeling very similar to you.

I can't help but flash back to that awful evening and the events that led to the loss of my little boy.

Pregnant again, my emotions are all over the place.

Your plans for this evening sound wonderful. I was thinking about getting a cake myself.

I will light a candle for both of our babies this evening.

Take care of yourself.

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Re : one year

Postby rebecca2 » Thu Apr 29, 2010 11:34 am

Dinner and cupcakes sounds like a beautiful way to remember Vincent. Thinking of you today.

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Re : one year

Postby jenniferf » Thu Apr 29, 2010 09:39 am

Jamie, thinking of you today. Sending big hugs your way.

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