A little sad

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Re : A little sad

Postby jules2 » Fri Jan 19, 638920 12:54 pm

Yes, I feel the same. I only wanted one, why wasn't I even allowed that? Their daughter was similar age and weight to mine, in fact I'd got a bit further....

I think your feelings are only human, and shared by us all on this forum.

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Re : A little sad

Postby brianned5 » Mon Jan 08, 638920 2:23 am

I feel the same way. Glad their baby is alive, but so sad and bitter that my first precious baby didn't make it. I watched her fight and overcome, I know how strong she was. I think anyone who loses a child will always wonder why us.

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Re : A little sad

Postby ruby608 » Sat Jan 06, 638920 4:42 am

I wonder why us all the time and apply it to all different situations. Why anyone? Im sorry but I do think your feelings are shared through out the baby loss mom community, pre-e or not.

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Re : A little sad

Postby jayme » Sat Jan 06, 638920 4:30 am

I've had those same thoughts! My 25 weeker lived almost nine weeks before she died, it just isn't fair and doesn't make sense.

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Re : A little sad

Postby jjones1333 » Sun Oct 17, 638917 9:43 pm

I am so sorry Jamilyn. Hugs to you and your family.

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Re : A little sad

Postby jamilyn » Thu Oct 07, 638917 8:22 pm

I have had those same exact thoughts especially since losing my second little angel a couple months ago..

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Re : A little sad

Postby jjones1333 » Thu Oct 07, 638917 7:52 pm

Thank you guys. I know I will feel like this for the rest of my life. And some days will be worse than others.

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Re : A little sad

Postby darateacher » Mon Sep 27, 638917 8:00 am

I feel the exact same way about my Aaron, born at 26 weeks, and an angel the same day. It IS unfair! (((HUGS))) to you, Jenette.

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Re : A little sad

Postby annes » Sun Sep 26, 638917 8:10 pm

Jenette, you can make yourself crazy with all the whys and what ifs! This disease is so crazy it is hard to compare one set of circumstances with another. It is so unfair that you lost your son. HUGS.

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A little sad

Postby jjones1333 » Sun Sep 26, 638917 5:05 pm

I saw a sneak peek of "19 kids and counting: Duggar Special Delivery." I must say first, that I am very happy that little Josie is doing good in the NICU. But, I feel so sad at the same time. I went through almost the same thing she went through. I was admitted to the hospital for Preeclampsia at 25 weeks, and had to deliver 2 days later. Why did my FIRST son have to die. While they already have 18 children. I just don't understand why God chose them and not my family. I will be watching the new season. I already know I am going to cry every episode I watch.


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