A mother but not really...

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Re : A mother but not really...

Postby lucy » Mon Apr 13, 2009 03:11 am

Im so sorry, sending you many hugs.

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Re : A mother but not really...

Postby carjashaner » Fri Apr 10, 2009 09:44 pm

My heart goes out to you.

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Re : A mother but not really...

Postby missingjasper » Fri Apr 10, 2009 07:07 pm

((HUGS)) Alicia, I'm so sorry your feeling this way.

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Re : A mother but not really...

Postby elainej9 » Thu Apr 09, 2009 08:49 am

Alicia its the unknowing that is so hard and the wishing that things had of been different. Its not fair that you don't have Jake...it is unfair that I don't have Caitlyn. I can picture you at that park watching those kids, I've done that too...life just isn't the same when you lose a child...you think different...sleepless night...thats what you want! People that haven't been through it don't know, but at the same time we don't want them too because we don't want more people to experience this. I hope that you can be blessed again....it helps the heavy heart.

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Re : A mother but not really...

Postby jamilyn » Wed Apr 08, 2009 06:44 pm

Im so sorry Alicia. It is a common feeling after everything you went thru. I felt that after my Son passed away. I even remember my first Mothers Day people asked why I was celebrating. Luckily my family has always done something special for me. I remember people telling me it was for the best and I could live my life how I wanted to since he passed away... I wanted to scream. I would give up everything to have him with me. Now I do have my little miracle baby and I still miss my son and dont feel complete without him here with us.

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Re : A mother but not really...

Postby brianned5 » Mon Apr 06, 2009 06:05 pm

I'm sorry. It's a crummy feeling.

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Re : A mother but not really...

Postby debbie78 » Fri Apr 03, 2009 08:48 pm

I am so sorry, Alicia. (((Hugs)))

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Re : A mother but not really...

Postby jenniferf » Thu Apr 02, 2009 10:55 am

Alicia, you ARE an amazing mom. I know Jake is looking down with pride at his wonderful mom. Thinking of you.

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Re : A mother but not really...

Postby rosalinda » Thu Apr 02, 2009 01:03 am

I wish I lived nearby so I could just come over with some ice cream and give you a big hug.

I too sometimes feel like that...especially when traveling, I always wonder what it would be like with my little girl instead of just my hubby and me. Sometimes it feels just like it did before our little girl, almost like she was never really here...?

I'm so sorry to hear you are feeling this way and I hope you feel somewhat better soon....sadly, without our babies with us, the feeling may never really go away.

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Re : A mother but not really...

Postby rosemary » Wed Apr 01, 2009 08:06 pm

Sending you lots of hugs Alicia.

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