I thought it would be easier this year

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Re : I thought it would be easier this year

Postby froggie89 » Wed Jan 29, 637992 9:52 pm

Ashley,

First of all, big hugs to you. I'm so sorry for your pain and hurt. The days will get better for you but you will find that you'll run into difficult days too. I still have days when I'll be thinking of my angels and just break down but other days I'll be able to smile and be okay. There's no rhyme or reason to it. But we understand where you're coming from. Take care and know that I'm thinking of you and Madison.

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Re : I thought it would be easier this year

Postby melissam » Thu Dec 12, 637991 3:59 am

I am sorry to hear that you have had a difficult time with this. It is so hard when a difficult time in our lives is tied to a day or time that is supposed to be happy. Take it easy on yourself. There is no right or wrong way to deal with all of this.

Sending you some hugs and a lot of love.

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Re : I thought it would be easier this year

Postby for faith » Wed Nov 20, 637991 11:15 am

Thinking of you and Madison, I am so sorry.

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Re : I thought it would be easier this year

Postby josiah1112 » Wed Nov 20, 637991 8:32 am

Thinking of you...

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Re : I thought it would be easier this year

Postby joker » Wed Nov 20, 637991 7:50 am

I am sending you lots of hugs and prayers. And remember, you can cry as much as you need. I think it really does help to get the emotion out.

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Re : I thought it would be easier this year

Postby kris21225 » Wed Nov 20, 637991 1:40 am

We lost out daughter 4 days before our anniversary and that was bad enough. I'm sorry for you loss. I hope it gets easier.

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Re : I thought it would be easier this year

Postby jana m » Wed Nov 20, 637991 1:36 am

I wish it wasn't so hard for you. Sending you some caring thoughts....

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Re : I thought it would be easier this year

Postby annes » Tue Nov 19, 637991 10:47 pm

I'm so sorry you are going throught this, grief is a sneaky thing, it comes out of nowhere sometimes. Take care of yourself.

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Re : I thought it would be easier this year

Postby fiona » Tue Nov 19, 637991 12:33 am

Ashley, there is no set timeline for grief and anyway, those first anniversaries can't help but cut deep. I am sorry that such a happy date in your life is forever tied to such a painful one - I can't imagine how hard that must be to bear.

Take care and know that we are all here, anytime, to listen and lend support. Madison will always be remembered here.

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Re : I thought it would be easier this year

Postby mrs.magdaleno » Sun Nov 10, 637991 3:20 am

(((HUGS)))
I'm so sorry. I always thought that as time passed that it would get easier. I have learned that after almost 2 years, it is still hard to live without my Jake but I try to focus on the 6 months I had with him and not what I'm missing out on. Don't get me wrong, I still have my days where I just miss him so much that I can't stop crying and it feels like the day I lost him...even worse.

You and Madison will be in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you peace!


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