my story is really long

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melissam
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Re : my story is really long

Postby melissam » Tue Dec 03, 637991 7:33 am

Kris that is just heartbreaking. I am so sorry that you had such a horrible experience. That just breaks my heart. I will keep you and your sweet baby Emily in my thoughts as you go through this next anniversary.

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Re : my story is really long

Postby kris21225 » Mon Dec 02, 637991 2:45 pm

Thanks everyone for thinking of us.

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Re : my story is really long

Postby itsmaya » Wed Nov 20, 637991 1:23 pm

I am so sorry to read your story. It is sad enough to lose a baby and on the top of that very bad treatment from the hospital[:(!]
Remembering you and Baby Emily[:X]

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Re : my story is really long

Postby elainej9 » Sun Nov 10, 637991 1:10 am

The anniversary is really hard, you just have to take it easy and take the minutes as they come. Its hard not to remember the dark part of your experience, I know because I had dark times too....no words will make it easier, but find some comfort from this forum. Thinking of you and Emily.

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Re : my story is really long

Postby onesock » Sun Nov 10, 637991 12:43 am

I am thinking of you and your little angel. I wish you peace, comfort and hugs.

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Re : my story is really long

Postby imemc3 » Sun Nov 10, 637991 12:05 am

I am praying for you. Emily Elnora's first birthday in 9-26-06. Our Emilys will be celebrating their birthdays together up in heaven. All there loved ones who have passed on will make both of them a cloud cake and sing happy birthday. What an emotional roller coaster lately with her birthday approaching. My thoughts are with you. Sending you lots of hugs.

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Re : my story is really long

Postby kris21225 » Sat Nov 09, 637991 6:40 pm

Thanks everybody. The hospital experiences didn't help in the slightest. We decided that we didn't want to have Emily's picture taken and they did it anyway, which I didn't know. Then one day I came home to a message from the grief nurse that my daughter's pictures we in and I needed to come pick them up. When I got there, she took me into a room and I had to promise her that there was someone at home, so that when I looked at the pictures I wouldn't do anything drastic, otherwise, she was going to make me look at them there. I had to go through the "I'm ok" crap and somehow managed to make her believe it. When I got home, I looked at them and there are no words. I'm sure you all understand. It hurts so badly just to think about how badly it hurt then. Anyway, I'm rambling.

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Re : my story is really long

Postby lisainnj » Sat Nov 09, 637991 7:59 am

I'm sorry. You should have been treated with more consideration in your time of grief. That kind of carelessness sinks in and hurts deep when you've been ripped open by pain. May healing and peace come to you.

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Re : my story is really long

Postby frumiousb » Thu Nov 07, 637991 4:15 pm

So terrible. I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope that writing this down gave you some peace.

Cheryl

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Re : my story is really long

Postby dja » Thu Nov 07, 637991 1:51 pm

Your story breaks my heart. No one should be treated this way ever, let alone during such a difficult time. I am so very sorry not only for your loss, but for the trauma of the situation. I am glad that you wrote and I hope you will find it a bit of a release. Thinking of you.


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