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Kris that is just heartbreaking. I am so sorry that you had such a horrible experience. That just breaks my heart. I will keep you and your sweet baby Emily in my thoughts as you go through this next anniversary.
The anniversary is really hard, you just have to take it easy and take the minutes as they come. Its hard not to remember the dark part of your experience, I know because I had dark times too....no words will make it easier, but find some comfort from this forum. Thinking of you and Emily.
I am praying for you. Emily Elnora's first birthday in 9-26-06. Our Emilys will be celebrating their birthdays together up in heaven. All there loved ones who have passed on will make both of them a cloud cake and sing happy birthday. What an emotional roller coaster lately with her birthday approaching. My thoughts are with you. Sending you lots of hugs.
Thanks everybody. The hospital experiences didn't help in the slightest. We decided that we didn't want to have Emily's picture taken and they did it anyway, which I didn't know. Then one day I came home to a message from the grief nurse that my daughter's pictures we in and I needed to come pick them up. When I got there, she took me into a room and I had to promise her that there was someone at home, so that when I looked at the pictures I wouldn't do anything drastic, otherwise, she was going to make me look at them there. I had to go through the "I'm ok" crap and somehow managed to make her believe it. When I got home, I looked at them and there are no words. I'm sure you all understand. It hurts so badly just to think about how badly it hurt then. Anyway, I'm rambling.
I'm sorry. You should have been treated with more consideration in your time of grief. That kind of carelessness sinks in and hurts deep when you've been ripped open by pain. May healing and peace come to you.
Your story breaks my heart. No one should be treated this way ever, let alone during such a difficult time. I am so very sorry not only for your loss, but for the trauma of the situation. I am glad that you wrote and I hope you will find it a bit of a release. Thinking of you.
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