I burried my daughter today

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belle8600
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Re : I burried my daughter today

Postby belle8600 » Wed Dec 06, 2006 11:04 am

what a beautiful dream kris. i know she is being cared for till we meet again. i bet that was comforting having a dream like that. i am sorry for your loss as well. there are too many losses.

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Re : I burried my daughter today

Postby kris21225 » Tue Dec 05, 2006 10:42 pm

I am so sorry. I know how bad it hurts. My daughter was stillborn 9/26/06. We buried her with my husbands grandparents. I agree with you and I believe that her great grandparents are taking care of her for me. I might sound strange but I had a dream that my husband and I had to go out and we were leaving her with these two older people. I kept saying that I didn't want to leave her because I was homesick for her already. I realized that the older people were my husbands grandparents. They were holding her and they told me that it was ok and they'd watch her until I could come back. It may be kind of weird, but that made me feel so much better. It was my proof that she's ok. So, I know it's bad, but try to take comfort in the fact that people who love your daughter are taking care of her until you can.

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Re : I burried my daughter today

Postby tlovele » Thu Nov 30, 2006 04:07 pm

I know what you're going through. Just 4 months ago, I buried my son who was stillborn,and it was THE hardest thing I'll probably ever have to do. I know you're scared about a future pregnancy, but try not to worry too much. We're TTC our second now, and I'm also very scared because I couldn't imagine going through this again. But we can't let this hold us back from having the family we want and need. I've read that many women have successful preganancies after PE, so I hope it all goes well. Have faith!

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Re : I burried my daughter today

Postby lisainnj » Sun Nov 26, 2006 09:57 pm

I cried a lot on Thanksgiving too (not so anyone could see me). For some reason I am also picturing myself how I should be - huge with child - a lot more than I did in the first couple months. I'm so sorry you're hurting so much. I wish I could make it better.

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Re : I burried my daughter today

Postby froggie89 » Sun Nov 26, 2006 04:54 pm

Erica, I'm sorry that Thanksgiving was not a good day for you. I think I was still in a little bit of a fog my first Thanksgiving after losing Alexander. I made it through - but it was like I was a robot. Many hugs to you. I'll be thinking of you throughout the holidays and wishing you comfort, strength and peace.

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Re : I burried my daughter today

Postby melissam » Sun Nov 26, 2006 04:39 pm

Sending you huge hugs still Erica. I know the holidays are difficult you, they are for a lot of us. Hang in there hon.

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Re : I burried my daughter today

Postby belle8600 » Sun Nov 26, 2006 12:05 am

klynn, i did not get your email. i am sorry for your loss. it was a very hard decision for dh and i but we knew we had to do it. please email me again.
the holidays were horrible. i cried all day at thanksgiving. i was supposed to be huge and very preggers by now not grieving my loss. i miss her so much

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Re : I burried my daughter today

Postby klynn » Sat Nov 25, 2006 01:09 pm

BELLE8600 I sent you an email. I lost my daughter Isabelle in August too. I have not done anything with her ashes yet. [:(]

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Re : I burried my daughter today

Postby belle8600 » Fri Nov 24, 2006 03:34 pm

thank you theresa. i did that. now i can visit it any time i want. it takes 14 days to post but i am looking forward to seeing her everday

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Re : I burried my daughter today

Postby mrs.magdaleno » Wed Nov 22, 2006 06:37 pm

I am so sorry. Losing a child is something that no mother or father should have to go through. I wish you peace.


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